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Having sex with the same partner can get a bit boring after a while. So, if you feel you and your husband have hit a wall and no longer engage in simple pleasures or get turned on easily, it’s time to spice things up a bit. Doing the same things over and over can affect your reaction to them and what once used to be exciting and pleasing can no longer be satisfying enough. In this article, we’ll be discussing ways to help get your groove back and tips both you and your husband can do to start Spicing up your sex life again.
Change of location
One surprising way to spice up your sex life when you’re in a rut is changing the location. If you’re used to having sex in the bedroom, trying getting heated in the kitchen, on the sofa, in the shower or even in the car. With a change of scenery, you’ll find yourselves adapting and accommodating to the atmosphere around you, coming up with new ways and stimulating your senses.
Share your fantasies
If you haven’t already, it’s time to get real with all those sexual fantasies that turn you on in your head. Bring out the accessories, blindfold each other or explain what turns you on. You’d be surprised how effective that can be when you actually speak up.
Play sex games
There are so many sex games you can play or you can make any regular game sexual. This could be a game of cards and every time a player loses a round, they lose a piece of clothing, play truth or dare and make it all sexual, or pick a random object and get creative with how to integrate it into your sexual life. The more you experiment, the more fun you’ll have.
Every once in a while, it can be a lot of fun to add role play to your sex life, dress the part and get kinky. Bring out the sexy outfits, accessories and even sex toys and forget about what you usually like. Allow yourself to fully get in character and unleash your sexual desires.
Keep your clothes on
Yes, you heard that right. There’s something so sexy about not giving in and changing the rules. Not being allowed to take your clothes off slows down the process, helps build a connection and gets you both stimulated. While you’re at it, work on amplifying each other’s senses through the erogenous zones and whispering in each other’s ears.
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